My husband and I lost our baby 2 weeks ago. Im kind of at a loss. We want to try again but aren’t sure if a few months after the miscarriage is too soon. Any advice?
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Pregnancy After Pregnancy Loss: Our Guide
Navigating Pregnancy After Loss
This article aims to explore the unique challenges of women who have faced pregnancy loss, offering scientifically-backed guidance to navigate this sensitive period.
Understanding the Emotional Landscape
Embarking on a pregnancy after loss brings a mélange of emotions: guilt, fear, anxiety, and simultaneously, hope and relief.
The shadow of previous losses can profoundly affect how you perceive and approach your current pregnancy, making the recognition of these emotional shifts crucial for providing the necessary support and care.
Spotlight on Symptoms/Signs
Expectant mothers who have experienced loss often report heightened anxiety, fear of recurrence, and feelings of guilt amidst joy.
These responses are natural, reflecting the complex nature of pregnancy after loss.
Acknowledging and addressing these feelings is vital.
Short-term Tips
Managing Anxiety and Uncertainty:
- Counselling: Engaging with professional counselling can offer strategies to manage uncertainty and navigate past losses.
- Online Support: Participating in online groups for those pregnant after loss can offer comfort and reassurance.
- Mindfulness Practices: Utilizing mindfulness can help manage anxiety. Pregnancy apps often feature mindfulness sessions aimed at expectant mothers.
- Self-Care: Prioritize activities that foster mental well-being, whether it's gentle exercise, meditation, or enjoying a movie.
Remember, this pregnancy exists in your heart and body. Embrace the joy of this moment, focusing on the present.
Long-term Strategy
Sustainable Wellness:
- Journaling: Use journaling and positive affirmations to navigate uncertain times.
- Pregnancy Yoga: Engage in yoga for both physical and emotional health.
- Breathing Techniques: Implement deep breathing exercises to ease anxiety.
- Support System: Lean on friends, family, or support groups for help with daily tasks or emotional support.
- Professional Help: If needed, seek further support from mental health professionals.
Your Stories
Emma, 28, First-time Mom: "After my miscarriage, the next pregnancy brought overwhelming anxiety and guilt. Counseling and online support groups became my solace, helping me shift my perspective."
Q&As
- Feeling guilty for being happy? It's normal. Pregnancy after loss is fraught with conflicting emotions.
- Continuing counseling? If beneficial, continue. Consult your healthcare provider for tailored advice.
- Joining online support groups? While not essential, they offer community and understanding.
- Balancing self-care with responsibilities? Prioritize self-care and seek help for other responsibilities when necessary.
In closing, navigating pregnancy after loss is a journey marked by emotional shifts and challenges.
Through supportive strategies and self-care, resilience and hope can flourish.
Remember, support networks and resources are available, ensuring you're not alone in this journey.
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Nicole 🩷
7 Oct 2023
Every night, my sunrise baby is doing gymnastics inside, and all I want to do is sleep. If she's very actively during overnight, does that mean she would be very actively overnight when she's out of me? This is my first pregnancy after a first miscarried and first loss of sunset baby during this pregnancy (a loss of one twins and other one survives called sunrise baby).
Amber
My daughter was like that and slept all night n still do
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Erika
5 Aug 2023
Well... 2 months after my second miscarriage... We are expecting our double rainbow baby. Please pray for a healthy pregnancy! I am baffled by this pregnancy to be honest... I never even had a period after my last miscarriage and now i'm pregnant again!
Erika
This was a first response test I took as well. 9 days past predicted ovulation since I never had a cycle after my last miscarriage (ovulation was determined by ovulation tests that I took religiously after my miscarriage...)
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🥰🙏Jennifer🥰🙏
Congratulations 🎊🎉. I will keep you in prayer for a healthy pregnancy. I currently pregnant with my double rainbow baby. I’m so happy for you 🫂
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Mal
28 Jul 2023
We had a loss at 13 weeks and 7 weeks. We've been trying for over a year for our rainbow. I just saw someone post their pregnancy announcement on Facebook and I lost it. I cried for a while. Has anyone else experienced this?
Paulina
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ sending baby dust 😊
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Deann
27 Jul 2023
Pregnancy after loss is harder than I expected. Every appointment I go in with a lump in my throat. Yesterday we were able to see our baby boy at 19 weeks and the 3D scan blew me away. I cannot wait to meet this little human I'm growing. I hope all the mama's are doing well and enjoying their Pregnancy stress free 🤞🖤
Auden 🕷
It is really hard I ordered a doppler but theyre not always safe so I got a stethoscope it may help ease you I wish you a wonderful healthy pregnancy 🖤
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Deann
I also have a doppler but I'm nervous about it 😬 and thank you so much, you also ❤️❤️
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Chavanna
5 Feb 2023
For anyone that who has had a pregnancy loss and is now currently carry their rainbow baby just know THIS IS OUR MF YEAR🎉🎉🎉 we are having our healthy baby with no complications speaking it into existence we got this👏🏾👏🏾
Kaitland
Yes definitely this is my girl finally
27 Mar 2024
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Becky
I just MC yesterday,...my body did what it needed to do. And this was first time and first attempt.....I don't know what to do with myself
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Cynthia
29 Dec 2022
I want to announce my pregnancy so bad but I am so scared. I had a missed miscarriage last pregnancy baby had stopped growing at 8w 2d and I was supposed to be 14 weeks. Pregnancy after loss is so hard y’all. I keep saying maybe after next appointment over and over. My last appointment was last week baby was supper active and my next appointment will be on the 11th of January. I should be around 13 weeks by then.
Cynthia
So sorry we have to be part of this club. A healthy pregnancy is never promised, so it’s so hard 🥺 I pray every day.
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Mindy
My stepdaughter doesn't wanna make an appointment. she took has had miscarriage. I don't know how to make her understand that she needs to go.
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Tiffany
7 Sep 2022
Any advice on pregnancy after loss anxiety? This is my 4th pregnancy but only pregnancy I’ve seen baby form and have a heartbeat. I went in on Friday 7 weeks and 5 days and dr said baby had a strong heartbeat but my fear of a MMC is outweighing everything else. I don’t have another appointment until the 22nd and I’m terrified something will happen to my baby before then. I’m 8 weeks and 3 days today
Brit
I had 2 miscarriages before this little bean, I've only been pregnant 3 times in my 10 years of being with my hubby. I lost my most recent in April and got pregnant in June, it's been super hard with my anxiety but I keep praying to the universe every night. I just want this to be my rainbow bean.
Just breathe and remember everything happens for a reason. I know the first 2 just wasn't ment to be ❤️ I'm 11 weeks and this is the farthest I've made into a pregnancy so I'm constantly worried but I'm just letting whatever happens just happen.
Good luck ❤️
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