At the hospital that my husband and I will have our baby..we get to plan our birth! One of the questions on the questionnaire is “do you want to be induced if your baby doesn’t come on their due date?” I have so many mixed feelings about this because I want it to be as natural as possible. Would you mamas be induced?
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Birth Plan: Your Questions
Your Birth Plan: Your Questions
What Is a Birth Plan?
A birth plan is a document that outlines your preferences for your childbirth experience. It includes your wishes regarding pain management, labor positions, and medical interventions. It's a way to communicate your desires and expectations with your healthcare team.
How Detailed Should My Birth Plan Be?
Your birth plan should be detailed enough to clearly express your preferences, but flexible enough to accommodate any necessary medical interventions. Include key points like pain relief options, who you want present during labor, and your thoughts on interventions like episiotomies or forceps use.
When Should I Start Writing My Birth Plan?
It's a good idea to start thinking about your birth plan in the second trimester. This gives you ample time to research, discuss options with your healthcare provider, and make informed decisions. Finalize your plan by the third trimester.
Can I Change My Birth Plan During Labor?
Absolutely. A birth plan is not a binding contract. It's important to stay flexible and open to changes, especially if they're in the best interest of your or your baby's health. Communicate any changes in your wishes to your healthcare team.
What Should I Include Regarding Pain Management?
Include your preferences for pain relief, such as epidurals, natural methods (like breathing techniques or water birth), or other medications. Also, specify how you wish to handle the situation if your initial pain management plan needs to be adjusted.
Who Can Be Part of My Birth Plan?
Your birth plan can include who you want present during labor and delivery, such as your partner, a family member, a friend, or a doula. It's your choice who supports you during this time.
Should I Plan for Emergency Situations?
Yes, it's wise to include your preferences for emergency situations, like a cesarean delivery. Discuss these scenarios with your healthcare provider to understand the options and make informed decisions for your plan.
How Do I Ensure My Healthcare Team Follows My Plan?
Discuss your birth plan with your healthcare provider ahead of time and bring multiple copies to the hospital. Understand that while healthcare providers will do their best to respect your wishes, the safety of you and your baby is the top priority, and some situations may require deviation from the plan.
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Sarah
11 Sep 2023
I’m having concerns.. at my last appointment I asked my doctor a few questions regarding delivery and she said I could sign up for a birth class that would answer all my questions…….
Amber
That would make me uncomfortable. The doctor delivering you should be more than happy to talk to you about it.. I haven't gotten that far yet but mine seems pretty open to talking
27 Mar 2024
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Sarah
One of my questions was “how many people should I expect in the room?” No answer..
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🦇Havana🦇
13 Jan 2023
How do I go about making a birthing plan. My OB really doesn't tell me much and has little answers for me when I ask questions.
Mia
I believe you’d just right down everything you want to do and want done during labor and delivery and give it to the people at the hospital that will be taking care of you
27 Mar 2024
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Kate
You can print one from online. Then you just fill in your preferences and you can give it to the nurses/doctor when you go in to give birth. It's good to just keep it in your hospital bag.
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Quoyah
6 Jan 2023
GoodMorning Momas , quick Question Who do you all plan on having in the room with you during birth ? I mean other then your birthing partner should your mother in law or The baby Grandma be allowed in the room ?
Keyla
Jus dad for me unless my older sisters want to come
27 Mar 2024
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breona
It was just my fiancé (the dad) in the room with me but if I was to pick it would of been him and his mom for me
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Herlyn
29 Nov 2022
I’m so stressed about my birth plan I’m 24 weeks pregnant with my second baby boy! And after talking with my previous OBGYN about what I wanted (VBAC) she literally dismissed my wants and questions by saying I couldn’t do vaginal birth due to my pelvis being too narrowed. Currently have an appointment DEC.5 with my 1st baby’s OBGYN he’s pretty far from where I live but it’s my best shot. Can anyone maybe relate to my desired birth plan or how was it after a VBAC? My firstborn is 18 months but I was almost 14 months post partum when I got pregnant. Thanks lovies needed to vent! 🥹
Latai
My son is 9 months and I had a c section with him. I'm 24 weeks pregnant and my ob actually recommended I attempt a vbac! She did mention the small possibility of my uterus rupturing, but she said that's not likely to happen.
27 Mar 2024
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Nessa
If your doctor does not support your birth plan, then find a different doctor that does. It is your body it is up to you, at least he can do is support it, help you to full term 40 weeks. If it ain’t done by then or shall I say if you’re not dilating or anything by then, then he should be ready to perform a C-section but not just straight up give you a no!
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minah beanna💗
16 Aug 2022
I have a couple questions for moms who’ve given birth recently, I’ve been watching birth blogs and raw birth videos and there’s like 1,000 things I’m not comfortable with that the nurses/doctors do. Is there anything that you guys didn’t allow for after birth for your baby.
Lucy
I agree with the above comment.#1 I never allowed them to take my baby out of the room, every test or shot given was done in my presence. #2 I pushed when I felt the urge & not just when they say/ because of this my labors we're fast. #3 I refused a catheter as I could just go to the restroom #4 I requested a wireless monitor on my belly so I could walk around #5 I asked for no tools to be used unless absolutely necessary and finally I ate & drank as I wanted. They will starve you if you let them until after birth but I found the extra energy was helpful
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Yonna
28 Jun 2022
The fact they’re not only trying to ban abortions but also condoms, plan b’s, birth control😒
Amanda
They said all those too😳
27 Mar 2024
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lexxx
What huh 🧏🏾♀️
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