First let me say I am so excited to become a mother with my first child ❤️ but some things have been weighing on my heart lately. I have a scheduled c-section in less than a week. I can say I am prettified but hoping for the best. I really wanted to have my bundle of joy naturally but due to my complications, that is not so. I honestly feel like I have been robbed of motherhood even though I’m still a mother. Does anyone have any advice for me to ease my anxiety… Am I the only one to feel this way?
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Am I Really Ready to Become a Mother?
Am I Really Ready to Become a Mother?
Your body is an incredible machine capable of growing a whole new human life. Sounds like something straight out of a sci-fi movie, doesn't it?
But there are some medical prerequisites you should definitely be aware of. Being pregnant isn't just about having that "mommy glow"; it's also about hormonal surges, weight changes, and shifts in your cardiovascular system.
The Physical Readiness: Your Body, Your Temple
- Nutritional Levels: Are your vitamin and mineral levels up to scratch? Essential nutrients like folic acid, iron, and calcium play a critical role in fetal development.
- Blood Pressure: Consistent high or low blood pressure can lead to complications. Regular check-ups are a must.
- Hormones: Ah, the roller coaster! Your levels of progesterone and estrogen will surge, supporting the growth of the placenta and the fetus.
From gestational diabetes to preeclampsia, you might encounter terms that sound daunting. But remember, most of these conditions are manageable with the help of a good healthcare team. So give yourself a pat on the back; your body is doing something extraordinary! 🌟
Emotional Preparedness: Rollercoaster Ahead!
Strapping in for this emotional ride? From the elation of seeing that first ultrasound to potential bouts of pregnancy-induced anxiety, your feelings are going to be as unpredictable as a toddler in a toy store. But guess what? That’s totally normal!
- Mood Swings: Your fluctuating hormone levels can cause emotional ups and downs.
- Antenatal Depression: This is more common than you think. Always consult your healthcare provider if you're feeling persistently down.
- Support System: Lean on your family, friends, and even online communities.
Feeling overwhelmed? Totally okay. Feeling over-the-moon excited? That's cool too. You're not alone; the emotional spectrum of motherhood is a rainbow, and you're just starting to see all the colors. 🌈
Financial Stability: The Dollars and Cents
Okay, let’s talk about something equally important but not so cute: money. Babies are adorable money-gobbling machines, and the expenses start before the first diaper is even purchased. From prenatal care to baby gear, you'll need a financial game plan.
- Healthcare Costs: From ultrasounds to the labor room, medical expenses can add up.
- Baby Essentials: Cribs, strollers, and diapers aren’t cheap. Start budgeting now.
- Long-term Planning: Consider costs like childcare, education, and, perhaps in the far future, college.
Financial planning doesn't mean you have to have all the answers right now, but it’s good to start asking the questions. Baby steps, right? 👣
Cognitive Adjustment: Is Your Mindset Baby-Ready?
Last but not least, let’s talk about mental shifts. Motherhood doesn’t come with a manual, and the transition can be like learning to ride a bike all over again. Are you ready for less sleep, altered daily routines, and the responsibility for another life?
- Sleep Schedule: Expect sleep to be fragmented, especially in the first few months.
- Prioritization: Your baby’s needs will often come first. Is your schedule flexible enough to accommodate that?
- Self-Care: A well-oiled machine needs upkeep, and so do you! Manage your stress levels through mindfulness, exercise, or simply taking time for yourself.
So are you cognitively ready to be a mom? Well, truth be told, no one ever is 100%, and that's okay. Your life is about to change in unimaginable ways, and guess what? You got this!
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Alexandria
4 Jan 2024
I had a miscarriage late October we have been trying since and no luck just yet but I have been feeling very fatigued and wanting to vomit but still no positive 🤱🏻. I really want to become a mother any tips ladies would highly recommend 😍.
💕💕Mom of 2 👸 👸 💕💕
Are u taking prenatal n folic acid pills put ur legs up in the air 15 months make sure u take those everyday
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Alexandria
No I haven’t been taking any prenatal just health gummies and folic acid what does that help with ? And thank you where really hoping the year 2024 will be our lucky year to get pregnant 🤰🏻 💗.
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Kalana
18 Sep 2023
The first day when I found out I was pregnant I was really excited and now I'm two weeks pregnant and tomorrow I will be two weeks pregnant and 2days im happy to become a mother ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Bobbie
What are you levels at?
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Bobbie
Congratulations!!
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Olivia
29 Jul 2023
Am i the only one who still has moments of being a little scared to become a mom?? I’m ready and can’t wait for my son to be here and love him already i just have moments of fear 🥹
Sevyn’s Mother 👩🏾🍼
Same lol it’s still feel unreal to me, this whole transition is wild to me like I’m really growing a baby 😭🥲
27 Mar 2024
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Megan
I already have one son, but I’m almost more nervous this time around than I was the first 😬
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Ayanna
7 Jul 2023
First i want to THANK GOD 🙌💙😇 Its officially time to have baby boy 🥳 super nervous, super excited, & thankful. Im ready to become a Mother , let the journey began🫶🏼😇
Cassie
Good luck 😍
27 Mar 2024
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Qui qui 👼🏾💙🕊🌈👶🏾💙
Come on baby we waiting
Prayer moma u got this
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Jaime
17 Apr 2023
Well it happened… I miscarried. I found out today. I just feel so sad because I was so ready to be a mother.
Gabbie
I’m so sorry 😞
27 Mar 2024
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Charissa👧🏼👧🏼👼🏽🌈
So so sorry 🙏🏼
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Adrianna
27 Mar 2023
I’m really a mother I’m so ready for this journey I can’t wait for the baby to kick already got baby names pick out for a boy and girl y’all just don’t know how happy I am like this is a blessing that I been waiting for the longest
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taylah
17 Feb 2023
i cannot believe this, i’m about to become a mother. i have 21 days left until the due date. i am so blessed and excited & i thank god for allowing me to have a healthy pregnancy. now all i’m praying for is a successful delivery. 🙏🏽❤️
Erika
23 days here!
27 Mar 2024
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Play hypnobirthing while u sleep
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Danielle
30 Jan 2023
i'm so scared to become a mom... why do i get the feeling that i'm not capable of being one.. i'm worried i won't know what to do or overall be a bad mother
Marie
trust me i thought the same thing but once you see your baby for the first time your mom instincts quickly kick in
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Mar’kia
The farther it gets the more scared I get and worried abt not being a good mom but I think that’s just me being scared I just know I’m gonna be a great mom! And I have lots of help for it
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Stephanie
18 Jun 2022
I be sitting around like … 😐 I can’t believe I got pregnant 😂 I’m really going to be a mother .
Jadah
Me too !!! Lol
27 Mar 2024
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