My husband really just said “what am I supposed to do? Sit here bored?” He said this while discussing our first month on parental leave. He keeps trying to plan a weekend with the boys and bring people over for drinks, but since the beginning, I explained I’d like to take these first few weeks to heal and bond as a family. Why is it so difficult for men to get on board? Especially because he begged for this child and I ended up agreeing to this a couple years before I was ready. Now he has no plans to give his all to this new life because he finds it boring?! What is wrong with these men?!