I never wanted to be a S.H.A.M Honestly, I didnt want kids but God definitely has a sense of humor🤣. A lot of ppl have been asking me why I am taking off 3 or 4 years, so i can take care of my son. 1. That's none of ur business. 2. I meant #1 but i am going to explain lol 3. I dont trust other people to raise my son. 4. I dont have family and my bf family is dysfunctional. 5. I couldn't live with myself if something g happened to my baby while he was in daycare or someone else's care. Now, for the single moms, I understand why u would work. My mom had to do it with my siblings and I. My grandma babysat but she would charge my mom and abuse my sibling. So, my mom let my eldest sister( who is 8 years older than me) keep us. Eventhough, back then, it was extremely dangerous because my mom worked double shifts. However, what u do with ur child is ur business. What I do with mine, is my business. He gonna be a mf headache( He will be a libra😪) but he has come from my life choices. So, now it's my responsibility to raise him.