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12 Mar 2024

Having an only child and educating them

Does having an only child affect the type of education you will give him? We give you some information on this subject.

  • An only child gets all the attention from parents, so it's important to distance yourself and put your child in regular contact with other children.
  • Try to preserve the child's childhood and have fun with them by putting yourself at their level.
  • Don't think of an only child as being so different from other children.
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Shavellynee
19 Jan 2024

Hey mommy friends 😁. Any advice on how to help my 11 year old adjust to have a sibling soon? She’s been an only child up until now and she’s having a hard time accepting the little one.

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Dynasty
Once that baby is here they're going to be inseparable. My 13 yr old was the same way when I told him I was having a baby. Then he eventually came around.
19 Jan 2024

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Shavellynee
I really appreciate the reassurance 🥲. She wrote me a letter saying she feels like she will be forgotten and I give as much reassurance as possible but she’s extremely reluctant.
19 Jan 2024

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Kiana
1 May 2023

My daughter is definitely anticipating the arrival of her baby sister 🥰 she tells me everyday she can’t wait for her to be here 🥹💖💖 she’s just so happy she won’t be an only child anymore 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧

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Kiana
❤️🥰❤️
1 May 2023

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Sadia
5 Sep 2022

Hey ladies, I'm a mother of two, I have 11 years old and 5 year old. so once upon a Time I said I'm only having two kids 👶👶 well today I found that Im specting #3th child 😭

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Stephanie
Congratulations!! 🤍
5 Sep 2022

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helen
Congratulations
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Xena
22 Aug 2022

Just found out that my child's daycare that she doesn't parallel play, she doesn't share toys with others, and was informed it is coming off borderline bullying...I don't know what to do. Help 🥺! Any tips of what I should do? She's an only child and we try to get her share all the time. #TerribleTwos #GirlMom

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Shailee
Well this will probably come off as a punishment but it’s really not. Try taking away a toy if she doesn’t wanna share. And if she fights or whatever. Wait until she calms down and explain to her why you took away a toy
22 Aug 2022

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Bryanna
Sharing songs help. Put her in situations to share like at the park and encourage her to share. If she doesn't want to that okay but when she choose to praise the heck out of her
22 Aug 2022

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Pearline
16 Aug 2022

My son is only 2 months but I want another baby 😂😩 I’ma wait but he definitely won’t be an only child for long enough to know the difference 😭

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Yanna
Look at you bless your heart sussss😩my man talking about once we can have sex in 3 months it go time again. I’m like what you said pooh ? Like what you said for real all jokes aside because I definitely heard wrong 😂😂
16 Aug 2022

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Lindsey
3 Aug 2022

Growing up as the only child and now I’ve realized my baby won’t have an aunt or uncle 🥺

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Milagros
He or she will !! Trust me your friends become aunties and uncles …
3 Aug 2022

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Brittany
29 Jul 2022

How can ppl have multiple kids? I can’t imagine doing this again to myself. Will have an only child I guess 🤷‍♂️ praying things get better 🙏

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Mikayla
I HATE the experience of being pregnant. And I feel so guilty for hating it because it’s such a blessing but I’ve been miserable. I don’t feel well ever and haven’t felt like myself for four months. I still have over halfway to go and I’m dreading it 😐
29 Jul 2022

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Asia
Lol. I felt the same way. But the struggle doesn't last forever, even though it feels that way at the time. And I think that God purposely makes it to where you actually forget how hard it actually was later on. Cuz here I am trying for a third 😂
29 Jul 2022

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🇲🇽Samira🇵🇸
17 May 2022

My husband is an only child and I am number 7 of 15 kids my mom had🥲 as soon as I told him how many siblings I have, suddenly he wants a huge family 🥲🥲 but I’m barely making it through this one pregnancy 😭

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Bethany
I thought I was the only with a big family there 18 of us on my dad side and I’m the only girl and my bf his got two other siblings and my bf has 6 kids by the same women he was with way before me and he told me he wants a big family and I kinda gave him the look like ummmm idk but whatever god blesses us I’m guessing I’m okay with it but I did tell him Maybe
17 May 2022

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Ally
I feel like we start to feel that way and then turn out to be the ones with the big families 💀
17 May 2022

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Kayla
16 May 2022

This is my first and probably only child and I’m having a girl. People keep telling me she will favor (as in like more) her dad over me. Is this true ? 🥺

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Brittany
Hun don’t listen to them Nobody knows how baby will turn out you just have to wait and see
16 May 2022

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adrianna
not true at all. you’re about to have your own little bestfriend 🥺
16 May 2022

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Catherine
12 Nov 2021

I feel super guilty lately. I am having a second child but with a different man. My first child is 12 and she is my world. I just feel like time is ticking before she won't be my only. I know she will love her sibling, but I just feel like I'm not being fair by having another child. Is this normal to feel this way?

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Catherine
I really appreciate both of you sharing your experience and knowledge! It helped me a great deal today. She and I still have the strong close connection and I'm spending a lot of quality time with her. I'm also having her be the room designer because that is one of her favorite things to do. She will have a huge part in all of it. You ladies really helped me and I'm going to remember what you said when I start to feel guilty again🥰
12 Nov 2021

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