We made it. 10/23 1:04pm he was cut out of me. 🥰🥰🥰 Hate he came out so early and now today they did his circumcision. 😭😭 my poor baby. I should have said no...
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Have the Circumcision Talk
Have the Circumcision Talk
As an expectant parent, there are many important decisions to make before your baby arrives.
One of these decisions is whether or not to circumcise a baby boy, and it's essential to approach this topic with careful consideration and research.
While circumcision is a common procedure in some cultures and religions, it is not universally practiced, and different parents may have varying perspectives on the matter.
Let's delve into the circumcision discussion and explore some factors to consider.
Understanding Circumcision 🌟✂️
Circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin, the protective skin covering the head of the penis. The procedure is often performed during the early days after birth.
Some parents choose circumcision for religious, cultural, or personal reasons, while others opt not to have it done.
Factors to Consider 🤔🩺
- Religious and Cultural Beliefs: For some families, religious or cultural beliefs play a significant role in the decision-making process. If you have specific traditions or practices, it's essential to reflect on their significance to your family.
- Health Considerations: Some research suggests that circumcision may have certain health benefits, such as reducing the risk of urinary tract infections and sexually transmitted infections. However, the American Academy of Pediatrics does not consider these benefits substantial enough to recommend routine circumcision. It's crucial to discuss the potential health implications with your pediatrician.
- Personal Preferences: Your personal beliefs and preferences, as well as those of your partner, should be taken into account. Open communication and mutual understanding are key when navigating this decision together.
- Ethical and Consent Concerns: Circumcision is a procedure that impacts your child's body and should be approached with ethical considerations. Some parents choose not to circumcise to respect their child's autonomy and ability to make their own choices about their bodies as they grow older.
Speak with Your Pediatrician 📞🩺
Your pediatrician is a valuable source of information and guidance in this decision-making process.
Discuss the potential risks and benefits of circumcision with your healthcare provider.
They can provide evidence-based insights and address any concerns you may have, ultimately helping you make an informed decision that aligns with your family's values and beliefs.
Remember: It's Your Choice 🤝💕
As you weigh the pros and cons of circumcision, remember that the decision is ultimately yours as parents. There is no right or wrong answer, and every family's choice is unique and valid.
Take the time to explore the topic, have open conversations, and trust your instincts to make the best decision for your baby boy's well-being and your family's cultural and personal values.
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Brianna
24 Sep 2023
Has anyone found the circumcision for your son difficult? I was so scared at first that I would cause an infection or something but he is healed up now. Thank God!
Catherine
It was difficult for my feelings but my son hasn't had any problems yet and he was circumcised the 17th of this month
27 Mar 2024
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Tiffany
It was difficult for me I had my son on the 8th of this month they did that the 9th and I was so worried about hurting him but it looks like it's all healed up now so we are happy
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Desere
10 Aug 2023
Today was baby boys circumcision appt and it made me cry seeing him cry 😩, even the after affect as of now, he’s been so irritable & sensitive , & it makes me cry every time he cries 😩
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Leah
6 Feb 2023
My little guy couldn't have a circumcision in the hospital do to it being "crooked" but he Is getting one next month on the 16th any advice on how to help it heal faster
Tiyanni Hunter
Um… make sure skin stays pushed back, keep area clean, and a dab of Vaseline and cover with gauze… but surely doctor will tell you all the same and should give you paperwork details on what and how to do everything I’d suggest also love and hug him all night after cuz my little man was in so much pain 😩 he didn’t even wanna eat
27 Mar 2024
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Leah
hopefully they give me paperwork cuz the hospitals where I'm at suck
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Ruthie
30 Jan 2023
My partner and I are still in discussion about our baby boy’s circumcision… boy mommies are u against it or for it and why? #boymom #20weeks
✨📍Meek📍✨
Me and my partner were just having a discussion about this earlier. Our son was circumcised. And if we have anymore boys in the future they will be too. I know it's the right decision for us and our son(s) because boys grow up and have horrible hygiene routines and I know I grew up with two brothers. And me as a mother I would feel like I'm invading my son's privacy asking him "did you pull your skin back and clean it" once he's older. Or just having to touch my son's area when he's old enough to do his own bath routine. I support it. But to each it's own 🤷😊
27 Mar 2024
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Star
18 Jan 2023
My son is out doing fine he’s awake now poor thing he had to get a circumcision today 😢 he woke up said where my circumcision at and looked down on his private and said oh he had me and nurse dtfl 😂😂😂 I feel better he’s out now thanks for prayers 🤗
Melissa
yay 😍 glad everything went well for yall❤️
27 Mar 2024
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Marie
How old is he... I thought they do it soon after the hospital when u have them
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Bren 💙BOY MOM💙
5 Jan 2023
So thoughts on circumcision. Advice needed so i can make a decision with my husband about our son.
Kay
I left it up to my baby’s dad, since I’m not a male and it didn’t really matter to me. But my baby is circumcised and he didn’t even cry during the procedure. The only time he cried was when the dr removed his diaper (cold air) but when he started working on it he stopped crying and was fine. After the procedure all I had to do was put petroleum jelly on his penis every other diaper change so it wouldn’t get stuck to his diaper. But he never showed any signs of pain, and nothing bad happened with it. My dr also did it within the first 48 hours of birth
27 Mar 2024
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Kay
And it’s completely healed now! He’s 11 days old
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Khadijah
22 Oct 2022
what’s everyone’s feelings on circumcision?? 🤔🤔personally i’m going to have my son circumcised
Khadijah
and how was the healing ??
27 Mar 2024
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Keisha
I did all 4 of my boys
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Mia
4 Oct 2022
My sweet baby boy got a blood clot after circumcision. So, we cant go home and he gonna make me have my first heart attack.
🧿Yajaira🧿
Hope all goes well 🙏
27 Mar 2024
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Shay 💝
Hoping for his speedy recovery ❤️🩹
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👻Camryn👻
4 Dec 2021
Question for all moms that are having a boy/already have one, did you and your baby daddy agree on what to do about circumcision? My husband and I are on the same page but I'm just asking since I was watching What to expect when you're expecting(love that movie) and I was watching where they argued about circumcision so I got curious about couples that have actually had that argument😂
Logan
So my boyfriend is uncircumcised and wants our baby if it’s a boy to be the same. I don’t feel comfortable and also I know it’s easier for infection if they aren’t circumcised .
27 Mar 2024
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👻Camryn👻
Does he argue that since he's the guy, he has more of a say so? I think maybe the guy might have more of a say so, since he's the one with the penis and knows what it's like to be circumcised/uncircumcised. But at the same time, we're the moms and we're the ones that mostly have to give them baths, change them, etc. And we also are the ones that carry them for nine months.
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