I am getting so stressed out right now. My baby shower is a little over a month away and my family can’t decide on who’s paying for what and who can’t pay for stuff. And right now my side of the family is getting pissed off and saying that they’re just gonna buy everything and my husbands side of the family is just not gonna help with it but they are struggling financially too and so I don’t know what to do and it’s pissing me off and I hate being the mediator between both sides of the family and trying to get this stuff figured out. It is stressful. I don’t know what to do, how to help, anything. I’m half tempted to just have me and my one sister plan it all because we’re having more communication than the rest of them and the rest of them are getting pissed off because the other side can’t help financially and I don’t know what to do right now.  my MIL had what I thought was a good idea to help with the food for the baby shower but my side of the family doesn’t think it’s a good idea and they’re getting pissed off because of the idea. And I’ve been having some lower stomach pain because of a bacterial infection that I have so that is stressing me out too. I’m kind of just feeling done with this pregnancy I want the baby shower and the pregnancy to be done with and I just wanna have my baby girl in my arms and not have to worry about these stresses and I know it’s going to be more stressful once baby gets here because it is my first kid and it’ll be hard the first couple of weeks but I’m just done with it already and I don’t know what to do.