If you and the father is not together, you should probably look up custody laws in your state. Majority of the time the mom has just as much rights as the father do. But If your in a situation where your baby has been in with you in your care since birth and someone is trying to take you child. Then you need to go get custody of your child. The last thing you need is someone taking your child and the police don't do shit about it. Because If you call the police the first thing they are going say is... is it a custody agreement put in place? If you say no they are not going to help you.