Y'all I ain't even gone lie I was screaming like them women do in labor and delivery on the movies...They waited until i was 6 centimeters dilated to give me an epidural..😵💫😅😂👑..lol
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Why Labor Is Not Like the Movies
Why Labor Is Not Like the Movies
Oh, you've seen it in the movies—a dramatic moment where the pregnant woman is shopping or at a party, and suddenly there's a splash.
Everyone gasps. It's time!
In reality, your water breaking is often much less theatrical.
The Water Break Myth: It's Not Always a Splashy Affair
For many women, it might just be a trickle. Why? Because the amniotic sac that holds the baby can rupture at the top, not always at the bottom like a water balloon. This means the fluid can leak slowly.
- Movies: Sudden, massive gush of water
- Real Life: Often a slow leak or a trickle
- Medical Explanation: The amniotic sac can rupture at various places, not always resulting in a splash
The myth of the dramatic water break can actually create anxiety.
It's crucial to know that if you experience a slow leak, a change in vaginal discharge, or even just a feeling of wetness, it could be your water breaking.
If this happens, contact your healthcare provider to discuss the best next steps.
Contractions: The Roller Coaster of Labor 🎢
In films, a woman feels a single contraction and bam!—she's rushing to the hospital, screaming in the car.
In truth, contractions are more of a gradual process and can start off feeling like menstrual cramps.
They'll gradually increase in intensity and frequency, but it usually takes time before they reach the stage where you need to head to the hospital.
- Movies: One contraction and it's go-time
- Real Life: Gradual build-up, starting as mild discomfort and escalating
- Medical Explanation: Contractions are the tightening and relaxing of the uterine muscles to help dilate the cervix and push the baby down the birth canal
Not all contractions mean that labor is imminent.
Some women experience Braxton Hicks contractions, which are essentially "practice" contractions and don't indicate that labor is starting. Knowing the difference is crucial.
Real contractions don't go away when you change positions or hydrate, and they become more regular and painful over time.
Pushing: It's Not a One-Push Wonder 🤱
Another dramatic moment in movie labor scenes is the push.
One big effort, and the baby magically appears in the doctor's arms.
While it would be wonderful if it were that easy, real-life labor often requires a series of sustained pushes during contractions to help the baby move through the birth canal.
- Movies: One dramatic push, and here's the baby!
- Real Life: Multiple pushes, often during the peak of a contraction
- Medical Explanation: The baby needs to pass through the pelvic inlet, midpelvis, and pelvic outlet in a coordinated series of movements
Labor is a team effort, and you'll likely be guided by your healthcare provider on when and how to push effectively.
Active pushing can last anywhere from a few minutes to several hours. The key is to take it one contraction at a time and to work with your body's natural rhythms.
The Calm Before... Another Storm? The Stages of Labor 🕒
Movies usually skip right to the active labor stage, missing out on the crucial early and latent phases of labor that precede it.
Labor is generally divided into three stages: first stage (early, latent, and active labor), second stage (pushing and birth), and third stage (delivery of the placenta).
- Movies: Straight to active labor and delivery
- Real Life: Multiple stages, each with its own set of challenges and duration
- Medical Explanation: Three primary stages, each marked by different physiological changes and medical milestones
Understanding the stages of labor can help you better prepare for the journey ahead.
While the duration of each stage can vary widely among women, knowing what to expect can empower you to face labor with confidence and resilience.
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Bre
15 May 2023
I’m always having light cramps is that normal? Also I’m not really craving anything yet I mean I get cravings every now and then but not like the movies when their just eating non stop and craving stuff like crazy
Leslie
Light cramping is completely normal
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Bre
Thank you so much I get a little worried sometimes
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Katona
11 Apr 2023
I may know a lot about labor delivery and the years after but one thing I don't know is this.. What does your water breaking feel like? I know it's not like the movies. 1st baby I had an induction and an epidural before water was broken for me. Second I only had a tear so I leaked a little at a time and it took 3 days to realize what it was. So now I'm here asking what does a full on break feel like just in case this one decides to do that.
Shayna (Shay♋️)
Oh You’ll know trust me! It was like a gush of pee bursting out of my vajayjay 😂 mine broke otw to the hospital we literally just turned into the parking lot entrance when it came out in my bf’s passenger seat. That was my 1st baby & i just knew what it was. Hoping it does it for this one also
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Katona
problem is I always feel liquid a plenty down there. I have to wipe every hour because it's so much. Get on my undwear a lot do deciphering between simple laxative of my pee hole and my water breaking might be a bit harder
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Kay
1 Oct 2022
Fun fact! When my water broke, it actually did break like it does in the movies! Not everyone’s does! But it felt so weird 😂 like a water balloon was up there and it popped. It didn’t hurt really lol but my water was GUSHING all over the place 😂 how about y’all? #water #mywaterbroke #birth #labor
Porscccc
Mines gushed like a hydrant had been opened
27 Mar 2024
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🐼 🎀 𝒞𝒮 🎀 🐼
With my 2nd son mine broke at Walmart 😳 everyone was asking me if I was ok…. I was so embarrassed lol
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Genesis
21 Jun 2022
Am I the only one that randomly thinks about labor pain and is really scared? Is it that bad or movies make it look worse than it is?
Genesis
Did you do anything to prep for labor? Any tips apart from the water birth? 💖
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