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2 Apr 2024

Is Labor as Painful as They Say?

Is Labor as Painful as They Say?
Let's cut to the chase: You've probably heard a million and one stories about labor pain, and maybe you're freaking out just a bit.
But take a deep breath—labor is as unique as the fabulous baby you're about to meet.
Sure, it's no walk in the park, but understanding what's happening can make all the difference. 😊
The Science Behind Labor Pain
  • Uterine Contractions: The main event! Your uterus contracts to open the cervix and push the baby out.
  • Dilatation: The opening of the cervix, which needs to get to about 10 centimeters for baby to pass.
  • Effacement: The thinning of the cervix, measured in percentages.
First, let's talk about uterine contractions.
These bad boys are the stars of the labor show.
They're caused by the release of the hormone oxytocin, and their main job is to dilate and efface the cervix so that your baby can make its grand entrance.
These contractions are usually more intense than the Braxton Hicks contractions you may have experienced earlier in pregnancy.
Imagine your uterus is a muscular bag, and it's squeezing tighter and tighter—sounds fun, right?
Okay, maybe not fun, but it's what gets the job done!
Tools for Tackling the Pain
  • Epidural: A common form of anesthesia delivered through a catheter in the spine.
  • Intravenous (IV) Pain Meds: Medications like opioids can be given through an IV.
  • Natural Methods: Techniques like deep breathing, hydrotherapy, and even hypnobirthing.
Your pain management options range from medical interventions to natural methods.
An epidural is one of the most popular choices in the U.S. and it numbs you from the waist down, so you're conscious and alert but generally free from pain.
It does, however, come with the risk of lowering your blood pressure and sometimes slowing down labor. If you're looking for something less invasive, IV pain medications like opioids can be administered, though they may make you and your baby a bit drowsy.
For the au naturel mamas, you've got a variety of options like deep breathing, hydrotherapy, and even hypnobirthing. These methods rely on the mind-body connection and can be surprisingly effective. 🌿
Mind Over Matter
  • Endorphins: Your body's natural painkillers.
  • Visualization: Picture each contraction bringing you closer to meeting your baby.
  • Support Team: Don't underestimate the power of a strong support network.
You've heard it before, but let's say it again for the folks in the back: Mind over matter really does work! During labor, your body releases endorphins, which are natural chemicals that can make you feel better and even reduce your perception of pain.
Amazing, right? Also, visualization techniques can be a game changer.
Imagine your contractions as waves, steadily rising but also falling, or picture each one bringing you closer to holding your little bundle of joy.
And don't forget your support team, whether it's your partner, a friend, a family member, or a doula.
Their encouragement can make a world of difference. 💪
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Queen Cici👑
2 Feb 2024

Dumbest thing I EVER believed was that Braxton hicks felt like REAL contractions. 😂😂They feel nth alike, I wish ppl stop boxing them in the same boat tbh. Cus my contractions had me feeling like I was finna die literally 😭😭😭😂Braxton hicks uncomfortable and CAN be painful but to say they feel anything like contractions is just plain lying. Mfs be like “they prepare u for labor so u can handle the real contractions”. Howwww wen they don’t even hurt half as bad?💀💀 n don’t even get me started on the ones who say contractions feel like period cramps. Mfs just be lying for no reason I swear😂😂

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🥰♥️Katy Tommy's Mommy♥️🥰
Fr Braxton Hicks were killer buuuut giiiirrrrrlllll them actually labor contraction had me thinking I was gonna die fr felt like being cut in half
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Amber
lol 😆 I had Braxton hicks all the time it would get very very tight and strong pressure in center of my stomach would take my breath away. But I had a scheduled c section so I never experienced real contractions and I’m glad I never had to go through that seems so painful. My best friend when she was in labor w her son the contractions were causing the babies heartrate to go up very high so she ended up having a c section to get him out to save his life. So I completely believe everything u are saying boo ❤️‍🩹
27 Mar 2024

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Tiffany
9 Jan 2024

Anyone else feel overwhelmed/depressed when they thinking they have been in labor for days on end so you go in and they say your the same as last week. I'm ready to give up. This pregnancy has definitely been a hard one on me. #exhausted

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Tamara
Yes with my 4yr old I thought every week I had dilated my plug had come out and everything and every week my Dr would say no movement momma which would crush me but on the bright side he stayed in long enough to be born on my oldest son's birthday which he was excited about! Just hang in there momma your baby will come when they are ready do lose faith everything will work out!! Congratulations on your baby btw!!
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🍹Jenni
You could be in labor, but it's called slow labor. I was in slow labor for 2 wks and finally dilated to 4 which was enough to be induced. Good luck 🤞 you are almost there. The last few wks can be the hardest but u got this.
27 Mar 2024

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Jayy
9 Dec 2023

- Has Anyone Experienced Mild Labor Contractions ? Are they Always Painful ? #Comment

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Kyla
Yesss mine were so bad I went into preterm labor because I just thought they were Braxton hicks, they gave me meds to stop my contractions for now but they still are so bothersome. Sending love and prayers 🫶🏽
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Haley
4 Nov 2023

Anyone else get sick right before they went into labor !? 🥲 My due date was yesterday and I woke up this morning with my throat feeling funny, I know they say there can be flu like symptoms as a sign of labor ? But I’m terrified I’m actually sick and she’s coming and I don’t want her getting sick !

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Muffy&DaGuyz
Drink some tea
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Kayli
3 Jul 2023

Yesterday I was in labor and delivery for painful contractions. I am 1cm dilated and my contractions were 3 minutes apart. The nurse told me I was in early labor but today my contractions aren’t as bad. What does this mean?

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Angela
Still in early labor it's like that just not consistent so they're irregular gotta walk n all that squats
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Kaila
Same thing happened to me girl!
27 Mar 2024

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Amber
24 Mar 2023

Having tightening in my stomach as well as back pain.is this a sign of labor or just Braxton hicks ?

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Kikuyu
Braxton hicks
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Kikuyu
I’ thought my second comment sent but long as your water doesn’t break that’s ok
27 Mar 2024

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Kalyssa
3 Dec 2022

Something I have learned. There is no such thing as labor signs lol. What I mean is, someone can be having the exact symptoms as me and be going into labor. While I’m over here miserable 😩😂 I’ll see someone say their symptoms and then a couple hours later say they are going into labor and i was always thinking oh I have those that means I must be close. No. Not always 🥲 lol

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Amanda
Yeah same here and my due date is tomorrow lol. Lots of cramps and no baby
27 Mar 2024

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TIARA
10 Oct 2022

Wow! TODAY I HAD GAS PAIN THAT FELT LIKE ACTIVE LABOR! && HUNNNY when I say I AM NOTTT READY FOR THAT PAINNNN! Omg I couldn’t even breathe!!! I was in so much pain my stomach was tight as hell! Wow im scared to go into labor now they said Them labor pains like that but worse. I don’t ever remember being in pain like that with my other two kids! Mannn Im scared i need a epidural AS SOON AS I GO INTO LABOR😂😂😂

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Rose
Sounds like me You got this mama 🤞😻
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Cici
4 Aug 2022

I’m having very consistent hard belly tightness but they arnt painful, just very uncomfortable! Labor?

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Kellie
They are just Braxton Hicks.
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Faith
Braxton hicks more than likely if they aren't consistent
27 Mar 2024

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Rose
9 Jul 2022

Has anyone gone into active labor and not experience painful contractions maybe just mild or moderate ones? Just wondering if your contractions were not as intense during early labor. I was told about silent labor today so I thought I would ask.

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Laquita
Honestly! The contractions are definitely powerful . But you have a few options for pain relief.
27 Mar 2024

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Rose
Were they powerful when you were at home before you went to the hospital?
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