Sex after pregnancy really just feels like if you were sore from having too much sex lol I was scared it was gonna really hurt
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2 Apr 2024
Men's View: Pregnancy Sex
Men's view: pregnancy sex
Pregnancy is a unique and transformative time for couples, and it can also impact men's perspectives on sex.
Here are five testimonies from men sharing their views and experiences on pregnancy sex!
Mike, 33
Seeing my wife's body change during pregnancy was an incredible experience. Initially, I was worried about hurting the baby or causing discomfort, but our doctor assured us that sex is generally safe during pregnancy. Plus, we had a hilarious moment when my wife's belly bumped into me during missionary position. We both burst into laughter and adjusted our position to accommodate her growing belly!
Tom, 28
I found pregnancy sex to be a bonding experience like no other. My wife's increased libido during pregnancy was a pleasant surprise. We communicated openly about our desires and concerns, and it brought us closer as a couple. It was important for us to prioritize her comfort, so we used pillows for support and explored different positions that allowed for deeper penetration without putting pressure on her belly.
Mark, 35
Pregnancy brought about some challenges in our sex life, but it also deepened our emotional connection. My wife experienced nausea and fatigue during the first trimester, which affected her libido. Instead of focusing solely on intercourse, we discovered other forms of intimacy, such as sensual massages and cuddling.
One evening, we decided to take a relaxing bath together. It turned into an intimate experience where we washed each other's bodies, and it sparked a deep sense of intimacy and tenderness.
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Jake, 31
I had concerns about hurting the baby during sex, but after discussing it with our doctor, I felt more at ease. We learned that the baby is well protected in the womb, and sex does not pose any harm. We focused on positions that allowed my wife to feel comfortable, such as side-lying or spooning. It was an opportunity for us to communicate more openly about our desires and connect on a deeper level.
David, 30
Pregnancy sex was a journey of discovery and adaptation. As my wife's body changed, we discovered new erogenous zones and ways to bring pleasure. We incorporated more foreplay and explored oral sex as a way to maintain sexual intimacy. It was an opportunity for us to learn and grow together as sexual partners.
During one particularly passionate moment, we decided to try a new position using a pregnancy support pillow. It provided amazing support for my wife's back and belly, allowing us to enjoy a pleasurable experience without discomfort.
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Kristin
23 Aug 2023
I get a lot of interest from men in public asking about my pregnancy 🤰 It’s giving real like I dunno what to call it lol but it’s cute ☺️
Mella
Girl just bc you pregnant don't mean you still ain't cute...these men don't be caring 😂
27 Mar 2024
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🦋Morgan🦋
heehee 😂
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Candace
7 Aug 2023
I don’t know why men think you are supposed to bust it wide open on demand when pregnant. I’m tired with a belly, gestational diabetes, low iron, work full time and a mom to 2 other kids. I’m just not interested in sex all day everyday!
Alexus
I feel you with you are not interested in sex all the time my son father is the same way
27 Mar 2024
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Candace
It’s so irritating n ungrateful! Like I wouldn’t dare open my mouth to say I’m not getting it enough if he had a medical condition 🙄
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🕸💀⛓ Trei ⛓ 🌹🦇
12 Apr 2023
Men who run to the strip club to complain to the dancers that their very much freshly postpartum SO won't have sex with them are gross. Even worse if they complain that they aren't getting any at the same frequency as before or during the pregnancy. That's just pure nasty. Trash even.
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Garbage 🗑
27 Mar 2024
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Triniti
14 Nov 2022
Super personal but idk if men and women who haven’t been pregnant will understand, is loss in sex drive normal? It feels like something’s wrong with me😕
Constance
It’s absolutely normal it can come back and then be a very high sex drive in a few weeks! I had a high sex drive all the way until like 30 weeks then I didn’t want to be touched
27 Mar 2024
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Asia
It’s normal ! It’ll come back i was like that for 2 weeks .. didn’t want to be touched , etc it’ll slowly come back
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Danielle 🦦🪷
28 Aug 2022
Momma is broke and wanting to start an onlyfans for those men with pregnancy fetishes to make it through maternity leave in February. Hubby would kill me tho
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Do ittt. It he needs overtime
27 Mar 2024
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Chanel
Do it he don’t have to know…. If the money good 😂🤣👌
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Kara
1 Aug 2022
I wish men could experience pregnancy so they know what it feels like. I don’t know if it’s the hormones or my baby daddy is just being an ass
Mia
What's crazy is that. When they are sick... whew they act like children. They cant seem to stand, talk, eat, etc. They need care 24/7. It can be just a simple cough and they think their dying. Girl, I'm over men.
27 Mar 2024
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