I've noticed a lot of post with women expressing their concerns about weight gain during and after pregnancy. Weight can be loss! When I was younger I was always a heavy set girl and before I got pregnant I lost a tremendous amount of weight working out, eating better, etc. And once I drop my bean I'm getting right back to it! Mind over matter ladies! And even if you don't lose the weight so what!? You carried a whole little human! Stay strong ladies and don't sweat the small stuff.