Building the parent-child relationship

I really don’t like talking about my business but I feel like mothers could relate. I’m scared that my baby daddy wouldn’t come through bc during my whole pregnancy we wasn’t on good terms and I want my daughter to have a two parent relationship should I talk to him or should I leave it alone

Are you mommies with your child’s father? My child’s father wants me to move in with him for the sake of the baby but for some reason is scared to put a title on our relationship 🤔 and I want to be with him. What to do? Please y’all, judgment free!

So… I made the decision over the weekend to temporarily move back into my parent’s house in Georgia…. A part of me feels like I’m doing something wrong because I am leaving my relationship with the father of our soon to be child 😕 I just feel it’s for the best… I think we are too toxic and it’s not healthy for me to figure it out while pregnant in a state where I have nobody but him …….. #AnyWordsOfEncouragment?

Am I the only one who never understood the whole “stop being your child’s friend and be a parent” thing? Just hear me out. I don’t agree wit that shit fr. 😭Because I feel as a parent, your child’s first REAL friend IS supposed to be you. U supposed to actually show them what a real friend is about fr. U supposed to make them feel comfortable, make them be able to come to you about anything as if y’all ARE really friends. I will never understand why so many parents are so mean and hard on their kids. BUT then wonder why their kids don’t ever come to them about shit or be distant from them. Or why their kids move FAR away n never speak to them again. Of course be a parent n stand your ground as a parent. But why tf wouldn’t u wanna be yo child’s friend? Lol. Cus I know for a fact ima be my daughter bestfriend fasho. She gon know off rip what a REAL friend is because of me just so she won’t ever have to tolerate a fake friend ever ‼️. N ppl say “children be disrespectful” but I don’t feel a child being disrespectful has nth to do wit u being a friend to them from time to time. It’s jus excuses to be hard on yo child at this point💀 sike naw lol. But I’m open minded n everybody have their own reason for that probably 🤷🏽‍♀️so if anybody do feel that way, feel free to tell me why. No judgement. I just don’t understand it but I don’t mind learning other’s point of view. 🤷🏽‍♀️💯

I need advice idk what I should do about my childrens father me and him lost are connection and it’s been hard to maintain the relationship, we’ve gotten completely toxic for each other… I just want to know if me and him should keep working or just break up and co parent

I🗣🗣HEAVY ON Teaching my child that if someone wanted to see you...THEY WOULD. If somebody wanted to pick you up and spend time...THEY WOULD. if someone loves you...you will know. my Child will NEVER HAVE TO beg for a relationship with ANYBODY: daddy...grandmas....aunts...uncle, siblings...NONE OF THAT quit letting people half love your kids 💕

Any suggestions and please don't judge. As my baby boy is approaching 💙 I'm considering on a co parent relationship with his father. I have strong feelings for him but however I been on a emotional rollercoaster with him the whole 9 months. Some hurtful things has been done. For example, he was helping me move funiture and his phone went off while he was outside. I picked his phone up and it was a another women address as Wifey calling him. I was 7 months pregnant. I felt so sick and depressed. But as the baby is approaching I really want to protect my mental health and my relationship with my child. I also have 3 baby fathers now and I'm considering on this being my last child. Since no relationship has worked out for me.. So this is actually a very emotional time for me which should be the most happiest time of my life. I'm just having a hard time knowing that I will be doing this alone for the 3rd time. I just don't know where to start.

Okay so me and the father of my child just broke up and I don't know what do about the visits now like I wanna co parent but I don't know how his family will react to what happens😥😥