the biggest thing about my pregnancy I hate is the talk around my child’s father. people constantly telling me “maybe he’ll come around” “maybe he’ll warm up to it” but I dont want him to. I want my child to myself with the parent that chose her DAY 1. In our relationship, I told him I didnt want kids & after we broke up, I found out I was pregnant & every since then, there’s been NOTHING I’ve looked forward to most. so now, I dont feel like I should ever have to have the “im ready to be a parent” talk with him because it’s bullshit.