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What are two main items that you would like as a baby gift besides stroller, crib, and car seat. My sister keeps asking what she can get, and all I can think of is like more baby clothes, baby pillows, and another blanket. I really don't know anything specifically. What would you want as a gift for your baby/baby shower?

Top 10 list of what you need to know when someone’s baby dies: 1. Always be kind. Hurtful words are often intended to be kind. But check: Are you assuming this person is doing the best they can under the circumstance? Before you do or say anything — first, be kind. 2. This loss is not a lesson. A parent may at some point discover something about themselves or the world as a direct consequence of this loss. But that does not make this loss a lesson. God nor the universe caused a child to die so someone can learn something. It’s tragic. Period. 3. This is not God’s will. Not everything that happens on this earth is exactly how it should have been. And not everything that happens is divinely inspired. Some things are simply wrong through and through. You don’t ever have the right to tell someone their loss was God’s will. Not. Ever. 4. Say something (supportive). You do not need to tiptoe around the loss in order to avoid reminding them about it and making them sad. They have not (nor will they ever) forget. Don’t demand they pour out all their feelings to you — just acknowledge that they have feelings. If you don’t know what to say, a simple, “I’m deeply sad for your family,” will do. 5. Say their child’s name. If the greatest fear of a parent is to lose a child — the second greatest fear is that they will be forgotten. You do not bring distress when you mention a child’s name who has died. You bring a gift. 6. On special dates, remember their baby with them. Holidays, due dates, Mother’s Day/Father’s Day, & birthdays are lonely and can be distressing for a loss family. Put an alert in your phone to send them a simple message that you’re thinking about them. 7. Keep the cliches in check. Platitudes offer quick and easy comfort to the comforter. And distress the bereaved. A quick saying makes light of a loss, and indicates that there is an acceptable reason why their baby died. But there is no reason good enough. Again, keep it to a “I’m so sorry ...” 8. Don’t judge their reaction. Popular opinion says the further along a pregnancy, the more a parent is impacted. But science says the impact of a loss transcends gestation. As in — the way a couple experiences a loss and responds is profoundly unique. And their response is not up for debate. Honor their response. Do not imply they are grieving too much, too little, too short, or too long. 9. Your pain does not invalidate their pain. If you’ve ever been tempted to say (or think), “You think this hurts? Try _________.” Not helpful. You can both be deeply hurting over different things without invalidating the other person. 10. Don’t be the Peeping Tom of grief. There is a difference between grieving as a community and infringing on personal space out of curiosity. Listen to what they want to say? Yes. Expect all the nitty-gritty they are not ready to share? Heck no. If someone’s baby dies, show up. The onus is on us to learn to support the grieving better — not for the bereaved to learn to grieve better. . Get your bonus chapter, “How to Support Your Loved One Through Baby Loss” at www.unexpectingbook.com #PregnancyAndInfantLossAwarenessMonth #WaveOfLight #PAIL #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #tfmr #infantloss #sids #trisomy #fataldiagnoses #prematurity #incompetantcervix #chemicalpregnancy #neonatalloss #ectopicpregnancy #molarpregnancy #babylossawareness #babylossawarenessweek #griefsupport #bereavedmother #bereavedfather #pregnancyandinfantlossawarenessmonth #unexpecting #unexpectingbook

Let me know if I'm missing anything In baby bags I'm putting In baby calming lotion, 2 sleepers, 2 Button up long sleeve shirt Im only doing zip up are button up to make it easier for his clothes with the umbilical cord socks, booties , hats, travel wipe warmer mittens, burp cloths , few receiving blanket, disinfectant wipes hand sanitizer,

For all the Mom stuff already had a baby I was trying to see when you actually give birth and everything. Can you bring your own blanket for comfort or something like that I get a little bit of homesick if I don’t have something from home.

Skin-to-skin with my newborn is so comforting to me. I can keep my baby warm like she is in the womb. 💕

Sooo No baby boy as of yet, the doctor said it was practice contractions . I’m not even anywhere near dilated and my Cervix is closed but I got this feeling he still coming Sooner than soon .. Them contractions earlier were crazzyyy 😩 Anyways at home, Soaking in the tub , about to eat, and put my new comforter set up and lay down and watch some tv. S.n. I went to Walmart today to try and pick up some raspberry leaf tea but they didn’t have any so I guess I’ll be ordering online hopefully it comes quickly . Enjoy Y’all Night 🫶🏻💖✨

i couldn’t calm myself down , this kid really took a whole tub of my shea butter and put it on my comforter pillows , my walls my phone … i spanked my son 3x on the but and again on the butt with a pillow case and put him in the room i do not think i can be a mother to 2 kids , last time he poured sunscreen over my couches and i just cried cuz i’m just tired of cleaning up 5x a day , idk if i can keep doin thins shit by myself everyday all fucking day literally no time by myself to myself my sleeping is interrupted, bathroom interrupted , shower interrupted, driving interrupted, literally every waking moment i’m about to fucking snap why tf did i do this to myself have children by niggas who don’t help i know my neighbors heard me screaming but i’m about to fucking crack and i don’t care cuz wtf am i supposed to do my son do not give a shit he tears my house up writing on walls pouring out flour stomping chips on the carpet play dough slime on the carpet he does not give a FUCK until i finally snap and spank him a few times that gentle parenting shit don’t work

Y’all I done came down with Covid 🥺😞 the day before my C-section . Feel like complete shit & still managed to get all this last minute stuff done . baby boys fresh sheets are in his bassinet, mommy & daddy’s new sheet and comforter set is getting washed & dried as we speak so mommy can have fresh sheets after I wash with the soap they gave me , all our bags is packed and in the car ready to go ; so excited but now so very upset and even more nervous than before . will I not be able to be with my son since I tested positive for Covid? Will his dad not be able to be in the room being as he tested negative ?