WeMoms
12 Mar 2024

5 tips for the father-to-be

You have just announced the good news to your partner. Here are our tips for the father-to-be to read to live a serene pregnancy.

  • Communicate with your mother to understand how she feels and share your emotions.
  • Attend gynecological appointments and especially ultrasounds - these are unforgettable moments!
  • Be informed and entertained by funny books on parenthood.
  • Don't feel guilty if you don't feel like a father yet, it will take hold of you when the time comes.
  • Take birth preparation classes so you don't feel lost on the big day.

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Marrah Costley
30 Jun 2023

me & the father of my baby, we decided literally last month to start trying, I wasn’t really expecting it to happen on the first try. We’re so happy to be expecting a little baby, we are both first time parents any advice ?

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Jess
Im a first time mom too how far along are u
30 Jun 2023

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Tameka
Congratulations
30 Jun 2023

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Desiree
26 Apr 2023

Any advice for a first time, single mom. My bf decided to leave, and im almost 25 weeks pregnant. He's adamant that he's not ready to be a father at 26. I'm not sure how to process it but, I'm not sad about it. Just want to know of things I can do to keep my mind off of feeling alone without him.

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monique
Work out, do some walking, online shop for new baby stuff watch labor and delivery videos lol girl I’ll be doing anything pertaining to my baby
26 Apr 2023

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Smiles
19 Apr 2023

I really would benefit from having a group to post to or talk to about the father of my child. Very abusive ans toxic. The struggles, and mixed feelings. The feeling of punishment. Any thoughts or advice?

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🍹Jenni
I messaged you! ❤️
19 Apr 2023

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Nicole
My advice? If ur with him...leave. I know it's easier said then done, so if u need or want someone to talk to feel free to message me!
19 Apr 2023

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Tia
13 Apr 2023

I’m told myself im not bringing a child into this world UNLESS I am loved CORRECTLY by the father, in a RELATIONSHIP with the father, have no doubts in my mind that the father will be a GREAT father, don’t have to worry ab no side bitches, side babies, none of that shit! Everything must be perfect!!!! I dont want broken homes, broken promises, broken traditions. I want my pregnancy to be the best! I want to experience everything .I just want to do it the right way and make a family that stays a family🤞🏽❤️ & I GOT EVERYTHING IVE ASKED FOR .

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Blocked user
And u deserve it baby😍
13 Apr 2023

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Dominique
❤️❤️❤️ I love this. I’m happy for you hun
13 Apr 2023

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Jess
3 Apr 2023

I need advice this pregnancy was very unexpected , me and my child father can’t seem to see eye to eye we break up argue he calls me out my name he did the same thing to me with my first ?Idk what to do keep the baby or for us to go our separate ways ? Any advice?

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Jess
Thanks I needed that 😩🥹
3 Apr 2023

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Megan
5 Mar 2023

My child’s father is an illegal immigrant and I don’t know what to do? This scares me… any advice would be nice and yes I know he should see an immigration lawyer… but I’m wondering things like can I still say he’s the father? Use his last name?

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Jnia
If he has state ID you can add him no issue. He needs ID to sign paperwork. Would have been better if you two were married prior to having the baby and just use marriage license
5 Mar 2023

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Megan
He has one that’s expired…
5 Mar 2023

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Jada
29 Sep 2022

Soo I really don’t like asking for others opinions because everybody mindset is different so ofc I’m very excited to be a mom and having a girl but the father of my child is a narcissist and toxic ass hell left when I was 6 weeks pregnant to go back to an ex to pretend he’s happy and never had anything with me which I’m carrying his child and me and the father of my child haven’t spoke since end of July but recently I been getting no caller IDs fake accounts and he has yet to reach out concerning my pregnancy any advice on what to do ???

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Erica
Not shit cuz the same happen to me I just suffered in silence went through it by myself I was depressed I cried and shit but not finna call and beg no nigga ‼️ knew I was pregnant 🤰🏽 that’s just me mfks be wanting u to cal and beg ah nigga nah he know u pregnant and know y’all gotta baby otw tf u shouldn’t hve to reach out about shit
29 Sep 2022

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Jada
I’m so sorry to hear that and yess it hurts because he acting like he so happy like I never existed to him it takes two to make a baby I promise you I don’t text this coward at all
29 Sep 2022

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Ciara
16 Aug 2022

Bd now wants to step up to be a father but he doesn’t sound confident to do so… I’m worried

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Rose
Trust your instincts
16 Aug 2022

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Rose
Try to work something out with him amicably before going through the system
16 Aug 2022

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kayla
25 Jun 2022

Need advice…. The father and I are not getting alone anymore and I don’t know what to do anymore

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❤️Brielles❤️world❤️
Still move forward with life babes at the end of the day it hurts but you still gotta do it for baby 🤞🏾🥰
25 Jun 2022

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kayla
We live together and I can’t even stand being in the same room anymore with him
25 Jun 2022

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Ebony
10 May 2022

I know I'm messed up for this..so please don't beat me down more than I already feel...just need advice. Real advice! I'm thinking of having an abortion and I'm 19 weeks pregnant. I already have 4 children and the oldest is 18 and youngest is 8, so I will be starting all over again. Which is fine until the father decided to not want to be in the child's life period. But he won't sign over his rights. I been through the inconsistent abandonment issues my children was given from their father's I didn't plan for this to happen to this baby. But once I found out the father is a narcissist to the CORE. And I can't mentally or emotionally spread myself thin again to take care of another child by myself..I don't know what else to do but adoption or abortion. But he won't sign over his rights. I don't want my irresponsibility of getting pregnant to over shadow my responsibility of keeping her..cause it's not her fault. But I never been so torn 😞 please give advice. Has anyone ever got an abortion during they second trimester? If so please give advice on that in my inbox thank u

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Kamaria
I straight don't support or believe in abortions. But I support that you're honest and accepting advice!! Just remember you don't need a man to be a working mother. You don't need a man period. Since you already have 4 children, what's another one? Just because they're a newborn, doesn't mean that stage will last forever. Just because you have to start over, I think it will make you stronger in the long run. But the decision is really up to you. I hope you find peace and God bless!! 🤗
10 May 2022

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reagan
How does the father have rights if the baby isn’t born yet…??? As of now you’re the only one with rights to you unborn child
10 May 2022

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