I hate when I’m complaining about being in pain and a person say “welp that’s part of being pregnant “ …. I be ready to throw hands, cause why u say that
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Should I Say That I'm Pregnant?
Should I Say That I'm Pregnant?
The decision of when and how to share your pregnancy news is a deeply personal one.
While there is no one-size-fits-all approach, considering certain factors can help you make an informed decision that feels right for you.
Timing
- First Trimester: Many women choose to wait until they have reached the end of the first trimester (around 12 weeks) to share their news. Waiting until this milestone is passed can provide reassurance, as the risk of miscarriage decreases significantly.
- Second Trimester: Some women prefer to wait until the second trimester (around 13-27 weeks) to announce their pregnancy. By this stage, many have had their initial prenatal screenings and may feel more confident in the progress of their pregnancy.
- Third Trimester: For others, waiting until the third trimester (around 28-40 weeks) may be their preference. This later stage may be chosen for various reasons, such as wanting to keep the news private for a longer period or to ensure the health and viability of the pregnancy.
Health Considerations
- Medical History: If you have a medical history that may affect your pregnancy, such as previous complications or pre-existing conditions, it may be important to share the news earlier. This allows your healthcare provider to provide appropriate care and monitor your pregnancy more closely.
- Prenatal Care: Sharing the news early ensures that you can schedule necessary prenatal appointments and receive proper medical care from the beginning of your pregnancy.
Relationships and Support
- Immediate Family: Many expectant parents choose to share the news with immediate family members first. These close relationships often provide a strong support network and can be involved in the pregnancy journey from the earliest stages.
- Close Friends: Sharing the news with trusted friends can provide additional emotional support and understanding. Choose friends who are reliable and will celebrate this special time with you.
- Extended Family and Social Circle: Sharing the news with extended family members and a wider social circle can be a personal choice. Consider the level of involvement you desire from these individuals and how important their support is to you.
How to Share the News
- In Person: Sharing the news in person can create an intimate and special moment. Consider organizing a gathering or planning individual meetings to announce your pregnancy face-to-face, allowing for immediate reactions and personal connections.
- Creative Announcements: Get creative with how you share the news. You can create a personalized card, design a custom announcement, or put together a small gift package that includes hints or clues about your pregnancy. This adds an element of surprise and excitement to the announcement.
- Social Media: Sharing the news on social media platforms allows you to reach a wider audience and receive an outpouring of love and well-wishes. You can create a dedicated post or share a series of photos or videos that reflect your personality and excitement about your growing family.
Ultimately, the decision of when and how to announce your pregnancy is yours to make.
Consider the factors that are important to you, such as personal comfort, health considerations, relationships, and the level of intimacy you desire.
Trust your instincts and choose a timing and method that feels right for you and your partner.
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Tina
12 Oct 2023
Hi so I’m 14 and pregnant and I got pregnant by accident  if anybody on here is going to discriminate me in any way, shape or form I just want you to know that things happen and yes I have those days where I think what should I do? Should I keep it or should I not, but at the end of the day I have one of my friends that I really really don’t care so please have nothing nice to say about this piece. Your comment is not text me because I don’t need nobody doubting me and at the end of the day. Yes I am teen mom but I love myself and child is going to be loved so whatever you have to say please be nice about it. Have a safe day.
Bonnie
Prayers for you lil momma 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
27 Mar 2024
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Fallon
Your going to do great honey. Age does not determine weather or not you are going to be a good mom. Some of the best moms I know were teen moms. I was 17 when I had my first son he's 13 this year. I can honestly say it wasn't easy but I also wouldn't change it for anything he's my best friend and he is truly a blessing. I had alot of growing up to do while watching him grow but there was never a dull moment. Your maternal instincts will guide you to be the best mom you can. It's not about being perfect it's about being present. The fact that you're here shows how much you already love your baby.
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Alyssa
4 Oct 2023
If u can’t say something nice , you can’t talk to me, bc I know that I am pregnant, I really hate very rude people
Alyssa
I just wanted to fit in here
27 Mar 2024
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Candi
Honey I think the kinda help you need isn't gonna come from this group. You wanna fit in but this is for mama's and soon to be mama's. Nobodies trying to make you an outsider but if you're not fitting the part, you should look elsewhere. I've worked with numerous people whom lived in group homes and have seen it all.. if you're as pregnant as you say you are I truly feel the house staff or manager would have gotten you medical attention. If you are instead doing this for attention, this is not the group for you. We are all sensitive as well..some of us have tried for a long time and went through losses to be where we are now. I pray you get the help you need either way.
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Kelsey
25 Apr 2023
I really hate to say this but maybe I’m not the only one who has ever felt this way. After hearing that my baby girl might have (Edwards syndrome) I’m just not so excited about being pregnant. Like I feel like I should be excited but I’m just too worried to be excited if that makes sense.
Kelsey
Thank you. I think it just still freaks me out but your right.
27 Mar 2024
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Tashae
10 Jan 2023
Im techinally 8weeks today. Apps run different I think this app is going based off your LMP what they say you're pregnant a week before and they say you're pregnant 41 weeks so that's the theory I got
Kashmirs Mommy ❤️
I’m technically 12 weeks and 5 days based off my last menstrual but my doctor measured me a week ahead at 13 weeks 4 days
27 Mar 2024
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🍹Jenni
Yes the dr. Measured me ahead 1-2 wks! I guess that’s how they do it. That’s why so many of us get confused by our given due date based off our last period!
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Monique
5 Nov 2022
21 weeks do I look small some ppl say that they can't tell I'm pregnant but I feel bigger wat yall think
Tiffany
I’m 23 weeks and I don’t have a belly really and on top of that I’m plus size so that might be the difference
27 Mar 2024
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Tiffany
But your belly is perfect mama
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Somaira🇵🇷
23 Sep 2022
for all the b!tches that say I don’t look pregnant YES B!TCH I KNOW 😭. As long as my sons healthy that’s all that matters 💯🙏🏽!
Ashley
Girl people told.me that until like 2 weeks ago. I'm 5 months now like damn, not everyone gets huge to start
27 Mar 2024
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Somaira🇵🇷
nah Fr, I’m about to be 8 months , and I only got a little ballon bump 😭😂, but it’s like as long as my son is doing ok that’s all that matters everyone different peridot. 🤷🏽♀️
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Rose
18 Aug 2022
Guys why I took a pregnancy test today it say I’m not pregnant I’m confused 😐 I don’t know what’s going on I been to the clinic I been to the hospital both places give me a pregnancy test I pass . And I took like 20 plus tests pregnancy all say positive today I took a test it say I’m not pregnant 😩 I don’t know what’s going on😩 what should I do ?
Mina R.
Take another one. Probably something is wrong with it.
27 Mar 2024
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Rose
Ok I will thank you 🙏🏾 😩😢😢
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Nicole
12 Jun 2022
I’m so excited to say that I got a positive pregnancy test!!! I’m pregnant! I’m saying prayers that this one holds on #rainbowbaby
michelle
Woooohoooo✨💖🙏
27 Mar 2024
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Arnetia
Nicole,
Praying for a healthy and safe pregnancy by faith it's going to work !!🙏🏿 🙌🏿 ❤️
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Steppen
5 Nov 2021
Some people say that I might have covid and some people say that I might be pregnant that I might want to go to the doctor
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