Good morning ladies, anyone else going through this pregnancy with a partner but feel that their partner isn’t supportive as they should be? I’m just having a hard time & I don’t want to stress too much about it so I don’t affect the baby.
WeMoms
2 Apr 2024
Announcing pregnancy to partner
Announcing pregnancy to your partner
Finding out you're pregnant is a big moment.
Sharing the news with your partner can be just as significant, whether the pregnancy was planned, unexpected, or follows a difficult journey.
Here's a guide on how to tell your partner about your pregnancy, with advice for different scenarios.
Announcing an Unexpected Pregnancy
Nearly half of all pregnancies are unplanned.
If you find yourself in this situation, it can be overwhelming to figure out how to break the news to your partner.
Start by taking some time to process your own feelings.
Consider how you feel about the pregnancy, your concerns, and what this means for both of you.
When you're ready, choose a quiet moment to talk.
You could start by saying, "I need to talk to you about something important. I recently found out I'm pregnant, and I’d like to discuss what this means for both of us."
This approach opens the door for an honest conversation about your emotions and expectations.
Announcing a Planned Pregnancy
If you and your partner have been trying for a baby, a positive pregnancy test can feel like a jackpot.
You might feel a mix of excitement, anxiety, and disbelief.
To share the news, choose a moment when you both have privacy and time to talk.
An upbeat approach works well, especially if you're celebrating a shared goal.
Consider saying something like, "I want you to know how much I appreciate you and our partnership. We had a vision for our future, and now it's becoming a reality. I’m pregnant!"
You can also take a more lighthearted approach if that aligns with your relationship's tone.
Humor can be a great way to share the news if you both enjoy making jokes.
Announcing a Pregnancy After Infertility or Loss
A pregnancy after struggling with infertility or experiencing a loss can be bittersweet.
While you're thrilled, you might also feel anxiety about the pregnancy's outcome or sadness about past experiences.
It's important to acknowledge these mixed emotions when you share the news with your partner.
You could start by saying, "Getting pregnant hasn't been easy, but our hard work has paid off. I’m pregnant! I'm grateful, but I'm also feeling [describe your emotions]."
This approach creates space for both of you to express your feelings, whether they are joy, sadness, or a combination of both.
Ask your partner how they are feeling and discuss any concerns they might have.
Additional Tips for Announcing Your Pregnancy to Your Partner
No matter the circumstances, here are a few additional tips for sharing the news:
- Choose a Calm Environment: Avoid announcing during a hectic moment or when you don't have time to talk.
- Be Honest About Your Feelings: Sharing your genuine emotions helps foster open communication.
- Acknowledge Your Partner's Reactions: Give them time to process the news and express their feelings.
- Celebrate Together: Whether your partner reacts with joy, surprise, or mixed emotions, find a way to celebrate this significant moment.
Ultimately, there's no right or wrong way to tell your partner about a pregnancy.
What matters is that you choose an approach that feels natural to you and allows for open and honest communication.
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Shayla
9 Jul 2023
Okay so hear me out, my partner and I are announcing the pregnancy finally and I have a gift box and inside I have the most recent ultrasound pics, my positive preg test, NB shoes. I’m curious, it may be a dumb question but when I give this box to his mom, or my side of the fam do I get to take the stuff back to reuse on the next family member? Or should I make multiple preg announcement gift boxes? Cause then I have to go print off the ultra sound pics too.
Ashley
Use the same box, get them something like a shirt or cup or something small that also announces like #1grandparent or baby on board.
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Basqui
We used the same items for the announcement but had an individual gift each could keep.
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Jetz
13 Jun 2023
hello girls! Today I am 9 weeks pregnant, I am 26 years old. I’m looking for ideas on how to announce to my parents that they will be grandparents for the first time, I’m nervous since it will be the first great-grandchild, nephew and first baby in the family. I have been with my partner for 8 years, but I am still nervous about announcing my pregnancy since I still have a year to go in my degree. Any ideas ? 🫶😰🤰
Anna
Girl you got this. Sounds like you're about to have amazing support and lots of love coming your way💕💕... And congrats on so the exciting news
27 Mar 2024
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Monica
Your family is going to be so happy! Congratulations ❤️
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Raquel
28 Mar 2023
Who’s going thru pregnancy alone ? Im 22WP and my partner relapsed and now I had to make decision to let him go … it’s so painful 😣 I pray everyday for him
Bubs
I’m sorry your going through this .. some days I feel like I am.. 🤦🏽♀️.. I hope things get better for him just keep praying 🙏🏾
27 Mar 2024
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Thomasina
Racquel I’m sorry but god got you and your baby it’s painful your gonna be ok continue to pray and I’ll pray for u too
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Amber
26 Mar 2023
When do you guys plan on telling family/friends or when do you plan on announcing your pregnancy all together? I’ve had two miscarriages before and never really got to announce either of them.. my fiancé and I really want to be a sweet announcement and be able to enjoy it with everyone but bc of the past we’re a bit hesitant.. I’m almost 8 weeks.. When did you mommas finally announce, or when do you plan on announcing, or just an advice would be really appreciated..
Jidenna’s Mom
I told my parents and my husband parents immediately I found out (6weeks) then we told my siblings and his siblings at 5 months and others don’t know yet till baby comes
27 Mar 2024
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Amelia
I probably won’t tell my sister or bother or even my mom till 16weeks just bc I’ve already had a miscarriage before and I don’t want the sad faces but I’ll tell my fiancés family next Friday ,since they r pretty good at not giving me the sad face if I do have a miscarriage
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Mariah
22 Dec 2022
pregnancy is very overrated- it’s very difficult to be pregnant an deal with a shitty partner
Tammie
Exactly, just want this to be over
27 Mar 2024
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Star
Wrd same here
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GENESIS🐻🤎
20 Dec 2022
I will be announcing my pregnancy for Christmas 🎄 I cant wait …. Look how cute 🥰
Tiffany
That’s cute how did u make it
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GENESIS🐻🤎
On Etsy i bought it
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Embere
30 Aug 2022
How is this for a pregnancy announcement? I’m planning on announcing to everyone on my birthday in 2 weeks. I’ll officially be in my 2nd trimester! 🥹❣️🥳🥹💝 #VegasDidIt #1yearoftrying #TeamGirl
Madison
Omg this is so cute yesss
27 Mar 2024
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Laura
I'm making custom t-shirts and for my husband's it says, "it was my birthday..." and mine says, "...but I ended up with the present."
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Nanny
26 Jul 2022
Anyone else get through this pregnancy not bring able to stand their partner? Everything he does gets to me. I think it's hormones but omg he bugs me so much 🙄
Dorothy
You explained it best! Literally same! 💯
27 Mar 2024
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Jaila
23 Jan 2022
is it bad for you to not be communicating with you partner during your pregnancy?
tori
Id say yes but im a huge communication person. This should be a time y’all are getting closer.
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Jessica
Yes, because they can't really feel what you're going through. The only way for them to know is if you talk to them. Pregnancy can get challenging after a while, and you might really need the support.
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