WeMoms
12 Mar 2024

How long should I wait to have sex after after giving birth?

If you are wondering how long to wait before having sex for the first time after giving birth, here are some answers:

  • Lochia is the blood loss that follows childbirth and lasts anywhere from 3 weeks to 1 or 2 months, depending on the woman. It is recommended that you wait until it stops.
  • Your hormone levels drop after giving birth, this can cause a lack of desire for 2 or 3 weeks.
  • There is no hurry, even if it is important not to neglect your couple and important to spark desire again.
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Summer
15 Nov 2023

So kinda of a tmi question. I just started my first period after giving birth to my son 2 months ago, I started on the 11th, how long are periods after birth supposed to last? I googled it and it said like 6 weeks but idk if I meant like the after birth bleeding or a menstrual period

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Blocked user
I bled for 7 days my first period stopped then 5 days later started bleeding/spotting all the way up till my next one after that the rest was normal
15 Nov 2023

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Summer
Damn really it lasts that long
15 Nov 2023

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Shikeera
6 Nov 2023

How long did y’all stay at the hospital after giving birth? I’ve always stayed 2 days. On the phone with my friend and she said now it’s only about 24 hours now…

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Taylor Colon
I stayed 3 days but I had preeclampsia with my last baby. I was told they keep you two days because they have to run test on the baby and make sure you use the bathroom ok.
6 Nov 2023

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riah
2 in the max if your healthy but they make you stay usually until baby have they first poop was how it was for me only 2 days and a few of my friends from this app had preeclampsia in the end of there pregnancy and they both had to stay a week do to complications I really think it’s just up to the doctors and how you’re doing and baby is doing
6 Nov 2023

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Monae
5 Jul 2023

How long have you mamas waited to have sex after giving birth vaginally my daughter is 2 weeks old and 6 days today

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XoxoCaron🩵
My friend said she waited 2 weeks but im a week postpartum and the pain I’m feeling it’s like I never wanan have sex again 😂
5 Jul 2023

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Monae
How was her sex experience?
5 Jul 2023

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Shania
4 Jun 2023

How long after giving birth did y’all bleed . It’s been almost two weeks for me and I’m still bleeding

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Monica
Baby girl will be 12 days old tmw and I'm still bleeding.
4 Jun 2023

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Ashley
Baby is 11 days old and the bleeding has definitely subsided but hasn’t stopped yet 🥴
4 Jun 2023

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Faith
14 Apr 2023

How long did you guys wait ti have sex againg after birth. Like I'm so ready to give it up 😅🥹 It's only been 2 weeks for me an I'm really bout to give in

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Faith
I can't do 8 weeks 😫 lol
14 Apr 2023

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Dia 🧞‍♀️
I'm 2 wks and 3 days in...I be wanting to lol but I'm waiting at least 4 weeks. I know my husband is ready
14 Apr 2023

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Megan
15 Mar 2023

How long are we supposed to bleed after giving birth? It’s been 2 weeks and I’m still bleeding consistently and heavily.

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Blocked user
I bled for 4 months
15 Mar 2023

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Gigi
I bled for an entire 6 weeks 🫠 I was told it’s normal as long as your not having golf size blood clots but as always check in with your doctor
15 Mar 2023

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Cryss
11 Feb 2023

I’m So scared to have sex without the approval of my doc at my 6 week appointment 😩and this is baby number 2 🤦🏾‍♀️ Did y’all wait for the 6weeks for your Docs approval ? and if y’all didn’t how early did y’all start having sex again after giving birth ?

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Samantha
It’s okay so was I. Even when I was given the okay 👌
11 Feb 2023

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Elsa Alexander
I waited 4 weeks. It seemed like my sex drive was over the top so I couldn't wait any longer than that lol. But at 6 weeks appointment got checked and everything was good. I am healed nicely. I just say take it slow and use lube if needed.
11 Feb 2023

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Bri
21 Jan 2023

How long did y’all wait to have sex after birth? TMI but Im wks in & is ready to hop on my baby daddy soo damn bad

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Sarah
You're supposed to wait 6 weeks
21 Jan 2023

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Danielle 🦦🪷
I waited about 5.5 weeks. Figured I was close enough at that point. IT’s recommended to not have anything in the vagina for 6 weeks considering the huge wound inside yourself and it needs time to heal. The 6 week wait time also helps prevent infections that can be introduced while having sex and that’s going straight inside you instead of having a fighting chance once you’ve healed back up
21 Jan 2023

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Queen Cici👑
10 Jan 2023

Did any moms have sex before the 6 week wait after giving birth? What was the experience? Does sex change after having kids?

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Trina
I didn’t do it before 6 weeks I did it at 11 weeks I can you tell one thing it does feel different. Might be a lil painful on the first attempt but once you get in the motion the pain should go away. It doesn’t feel the same to me but ofc in a good way
10 Jan 2023

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🌈💐🌷🌺Yallooo🌼🌻🌞🌈
I did 3 weeks after In the past it did hurt a lot after did not really enjoy it this time I’ll wait till 6 weeks
10 Jan 2023

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Kayla
5 Sep 2022

How long did you guys wait after giving birth to be intimate again? I’m 3 1/2 weeks pp and my stitches have dissolved already but need opinions.

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Dazzquerrius
I waited tell my doc told me I can. my postpartum appointment
5 Sep 2022

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Lauren
Doc recommended 6 weeks so really going to try to stick it out
5 Sep 2022

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