No advice about kids / pregnancy but ..
has anyone had problems with their own mother once becoming pregnant/mother? I feel like raising my children is bringing up a bunch of horrible memories of my child hood (not that it was all bad.) but just the bad times,
Also me and my mom have argued way more and become so distant since i became a mom. She belittles my issues and tells me basically “just deal with it, ive done it everyone does” etc. i only have hubby for a support system, the rest of my family doesnt help at all, i look at my kids and would do anything for them yet, my mom doesnt look at me in that way. My mom always favored my sister over me, and now shes favoring my daughter over my son, its giving me like PtSD and no matter what i say to express myself its an argument she will not apologize for making me feel this way or any of her actions. How do i deal with this? Has anyone experienced this?